It's a common scenario. Although the specific circumstances may differ, the challenge often remains the same: we professional women seldom understand our true value. Perhaps it's because we continue to be paid, on average, less than men to only then have to prove ourselves by doing more. Or, perhaps it's because we've been taught from our earliest years to value the humble individual--the Mother Theresa who gives, but never takes.
Successfully selling our candidacy to a prospective employer by communicating our ability to make a difference in the achievement of an organization's mission--our value--depends on our willingness to uncover and package our gifts, and to serve them up on a sparkling silver platter. Following are three simple truths you can incorporate into your "silent script"-the self-talk which guides your thinking, as well as your behavior, throughout your career development.
1. You are unique
"Everyone has an MBA.a BA.a HS degree."
"Everyone is a team player.a leader.an effective communicator."
Erase any self-talk leading you to believe anything less than the honest truth, which is that you are a unique individual. No one else knows everything you know, can do everything you do, or deliver in the manner that you do. The fact is, not everyone really is a team player, a natural leader, or an effective communicator, so explore the things you do well, and claim them as your own.
2. You are an achiever
Everyone has a unique definition of success. Exploring your priorities, beliefs and ambitions can help you arrive at your own criteria and uncover the value in all of your personal and professional achievements.
3. You are a worthwhile investment
Whether it's "selling" yourself to a prospective employer, "marketing" yourself for a promotion, or deciding whether or not to invest in your own professional development, be confident in the knowledge that you are a worthwhile investment.
After all, your unrealized ambitions await you.
Action Steps:
1. Identify those things you do well-your natural strengths-and present them as a unique package only you offer.
2. Explore your unique definition of success and measure yourself using your definition, not those of others.
3. Clearly understand your worth, and communicate it to others.
About The Author
Susan Eckert, MA, CCM, CPRW is Principal of Advance Career & Professional Development which offers affordable, comprehensive career support. Visit her website at www.advancecareerdevelopment.com for information regarding free services which include a free resume evaluation, monthly career advancement newsletter and 1 hour career coaching session.
Do you remember your younger years when you and your... Read More
It's time for the "mainstream" to WAKE UP. The alarm... Read More
You probably know a few. These gals marry the millionaire.... Read More
While I was growing up, my dad repeatedly told me... Read More
Hello Creative Entrepreneurs!I hope this finds you all doing well... Read More
Many people on the planet are realizing that the key... Read More
I would like you to give your full attention to... Read More
In the column Plants, Herbs and Roots For Prosperity, I... Read More
The Law of Attraction T-ToolTM is the single most useful... Read More
The pupils of the eyes will dilate (enlarge) up to... Read More
I'm sure most of you have heard of, and perhaps... Read More
A friendship poem:Choose friends wisely, the portrait they paintIs who... Read More
Not everyone is programmed to be a successful businessperson, many... Read More
Dear Friend,First of all, let's take a look at the... Read More
The Concept of Beauty"Mirror Mirror on the Wall, who's the... Read More
That's all it takes to change the world. Take a... Read More
There are numerous sources on the store bookshelves and the... Read More
Whose life are you living? Are you living your dream... Read More
We should strive to attain a desireless state. As long... Read More
The process of human change begins within us. We all... Read More
For the longest time, people believed that the earth was... Read More
Having good communication skills in the workplace is important. This... Read More
Do you know anybody that you consider to be particularly... Read More
This is the sixth article in our "True Power" series.... Read More
I was reminded once again the other day about how... Read More
Just about everybody gets them...I had them just recently...Yup, I... Read More
Are you living your life, the way you want to... Read More
I am a physicist by education, and a practical business... Read More
What do you do when circumstances seem out of control?... Read More
Would you like to get lucky? There are at least... Read More
Your mind is so powerful that what you focus on... Read More
Here is a non-scientific, but fun way to see which... Read More
I bet you're like me - you want results now,... Read More
One of the first lessons that "Rich Dad, Poor Dad"... Read More
Body language is fascinating. People rarely recognize how much information... Read More
When my wife and I were searching for a new... Read More
Your mind power makes what you focus on happen. You... Read More
(Channelled)Roy? What value comes of a mechanic that fills his... Read More
Do you remember the feeling of seeing someone you were... Read More
If you are looking for a way to improve your... Read More
Abundance isn't something you find from the outside. Abundance begins... Read More
Do you realize that your belief system is ultimately what... Read More
What you need to understand is that there is no... Read More
It is extremely important that people have a good first... Read More
Have you been in that "black hole?" That is the... Read More
Sitting here today in sunny Queensland Australia, I'm reflecting on... Read More
"I just can't start a conversation with women, and it's... Read More
Few people are prepared for the responsibilities and tasks involved... Read More
Growing up, we all had a mental picture of the... Read More
I'd like to share a story with you about two... Read More
Attraction Attraction |