I have a deep and abiding belief that there lies within every person the capacity for greatness. I don't mean the old adage that you can become anything you want to be -- I'm more receptive to Peter F. Drucker's admonition to not "waste time trying to put in what the creator left out." But the potential of almost every person is far above his or her level of achievement. That so few rise to their potential does not in any way diminish the validity of this belief. We often see some obscure person rise apparently from nowhere to leadership of a cause or a movement, giving proof to the idea that this capacity lies dormant within each and every one of us.
We've been conditioned by life and by the authority figures we grew up with to recognize and accept ourselves as we are, with severe restrictions on our abilities. We were taught to accept our role and station in life without whining, that the ability to accept and endure our lot shows strength and character. So long as we are prepared to go through life accepting that which fate has thrust upon us as our ordained destiny, so too are we condemned, by our own resignation, our own self depreciation, to the ranks of mediocrity. Others may put me down but the choice to stay down is mine alone.
If we can find within ourselves the courage to challenge fate, to say to her and to the entire world, "I am not ordinary. I will not accept that it is my destiny to live out my life in a humdrum existence, doing things of little consequence, never dreaming, never daring to reach for more.", then we have forced open the door to, at least the possibility of greatness. Leadership writer Paul J. Meyers said, " there is in our world a vast storehouse of plenty which is approached by some with a steam shovel, by others with a tea spoon."
"What", you ask, "if I spend my entire life in pursuit of this fantastic dream yet never achieve it? I will feel robbed, cheated, let down, betrayed."
Who suffers the worse fate, the man who fights to no avail with every fibre of his being for that in which he truly believes or the man who spends his life whining, "I could have been a contender"? "Man's goals should exceed his grasp, else what's a heaven for." (Robert Browning )
Of all the peoples in the world we, who live in Canada and The United States -- countries built on and by the impossible dreams of men and women of vision and courage, determined to soldier on in the face of horrendous odds -- have the least excuse for believing in our limitations, for accepting our fate. With the hundreds of larger than life legends in our heritage, how can we dare to not believe in our own incredible potential?
All of us in North America, indeed throughout the world, must relearn this ability to "dream the impossible dream" and to bring to bear the necessary resources, belief, determination and courage to make our dreams come true.
I am the master of my fate. I am the captain of my soul.(source unconfirmed)
Len McNally is President and founder (in 1996) of The Leadership Centre, dedicated to leadership development, management team building and change management through executive and corporate coaching - from the top floor to the shop floor. With more than thirty years experience in sales, marketing and business development Len has for many years been an avid student of psychology, behavior and motivation. He still reads three to four books a month and has writen several book reviews for Amazon.com. He can be reached at (519) 759-1127 or email: the.leadership.centre@sympatico.ca. Other articles may be seen at: http://www.tlc-leadership.com
I did a quick search on the Internet for pheromones.Pheromones... Read More
He always looks perfectly put together. He can be in... Read More
Many people, who feel that they are independent and communicate... Read More
Do you have things like a bicycle, jetski, or swimming... Read More
FENG shui (say "fung shway") is the art of creating... Read More
I saw a coaching client recently who wanted to get... Read More
There are several books now that discuss the power of... Read More
Your Total Image is made up of several essential components:?... Read More
I'm sure most of you have heard of, and perhaps... Read More
The art of conversation is a skill shared by most... Read More
Intelligent conversation is one of life's pleasures. I love nothing... Read More
Precious, brilliant and expensive-why wouldn't diamonds be a girl's best... Read More
Being a child of the Seventies I'm a real fan... Read More
What will it cost you if you don't do it?Everyone... Read More
A lot of your people problems and concerns about what... Read More
"How's it going?" I asked the clerk in the new... Read More
"If you can see it, you can have it." Is... Read More
We are all part of the universe. The universe is... Read More
When was the last time you told someone the story... Read More
Invisible braces, like Invisalign, are most popular among adults. For... Read More
So, what is magic? Is it an illusion or is... Read More
Have you been in that "black hole?" That is the... Read More
If you are looking for a way to improve your... Read More
Do you know any people who seem to attract bad... Read More
Have you ever heard the phrase, "Thoughts are things and... Read More
What's In a Name?How often have you thought about the... Read More
When you begin to study feng shui, you quickly realize... Read More
We live in a world filled with beliefs, values, and... Read More
The questions of life may call to you. You may... Read More
Speed Up the Evolution!1. Check the area where you are... Read More
"Within you is the power to change your life"Lately I've... Read More
Would you like to have more success in your life?... Read More
What matters most in life to you? Money, Time, Friends,... Read More
"Hoy-day! What a sweep of vanity comes this way!" --William... Read More
Visualization is an essential tool for attracting your dreams and... Read More
You limit yourself. Yes, it is true. Each day you... Read More
What separates successful people from unsuccessful people, achievers from non-achievers,... Read More
Somebody once said that insanity is doing the same thing... Read More
Each relationship combines two individual stories to coauthor a new... Read More
Nowadays the terms self-improvement, self-growth and self-help have become popular.... Read More
It is arguable that the definition of wealth is the... Read More
Have you ever had an overwhelming problem or issue? Was... Read More
So, the thing is? we reap what we sow.A few... Read More
The secret of attraction is the unconscious hope for healing... Read More
In a conversation recently, a friend remarked to me: "Every... Read More
What's most astounding is that the vast majority of business... Read More
An ideal is not the dream that can never be... Read More
Maybe can be a great place. It's full of possibility,... Read More
You only have to look around you at your friends,... Read More
Imagine there is an event that will take place in... Read More
Attraction Attraction |