"James is so restless and energetic. I wonder if he's hyperactive."
"Nancy seems to be all over the place. She's got a dozen projects going at once!"
"Harley does things so fast! He put up a website in two weeks."
"Marlene is so intense. She needs to lighten up."
While it's possible that James is hyperactive, Nancy is scattered, Harley skates on thin ice and Marlene is depressed, it's also possible that each of these people wears the label, "gifted adult," often unaware.
Gifted children often lose interest in school because they're bored. They don't always get top grades because they think in unconventional patterns.
Gifted adults can be misunderstood. Those who read books like Jacobsen's The Gifted Adult often feel relieved: "Finally, someone understands where I'm coming from!"
Gifted adults often face unique career challenges. Job environments rarely reward creativity, a hallmark of the gifted, and frequently punish anyone who threatens to color outside the lines. Corporations often resemble football games, where players are rewarded for being in position to receive the ball everyone wins by executing the coach's play. Gifted people function better when their game resembles playground basketball, where you can scramble and make plays as you go.
And when gifted adults seek career guidance, they must filter feedback they receive from friends and consultants who are not familiar with their situation.
* "Whoa! You're trying to be a jack-of-all trades and you'll end up a master of none."
* "Wow! I've never seen anyone move as fast as you do. I'm sure you're going to be a success."
* "You're going too fast! Slow down or you'll fail."
* "Focus on one thing at a time."
* "Boy, you're catching on fast! You must be well-suited to this field."
If you're gifted, you probably already have some idea that you're "different." Read a few books and articles. Browse websites. Understanding how you operate can help you avoid, "Why is this happening" questions and reach success on your own terms.
I offer one-to-one consultations on career strategy.
About The Author
Cathy Goodwin, Ph.D., is an author, speaker and career/business consultant, helping midlife professionals take their First step to a Second Career. http://www.cathygoodwin.com.
"Ten secrets of mastering a major life change" mailto:subscribe@cathygoodwin.com
Contact: cathy@cathygoodwin.com 505-534-4294
Career change is no walk in the park.If it was... Read More
With the economy heating up and employment prospects opening up... Read More
Psychological Testing has become rampant across industries, more so in... Read More
When communication breaks down in your office or factory and... Read More
FIRST STEP -- Set short-term, incremental goals.... Read More
Question: How do I market myself online?Answer: With a stellar... Read More
As an executive recruiter, I interview a lot of people.... Read More
Here is a last year resident checklist not to forget:LICENSING:Licensing... Read More
Sophisticated job seekers know and understand that sometime during the... Read More
Many people turn a beloved hobby into a vocation. They... Read More
Unless you are among the luckiest people in the world,... Read More
Moving into a new job always involves some degree of... Read More
After establishing a trusting relationship with the safety officer, it... Read More
At the end of the third job interview, Helene was... Read More
If you still picture a steady progression up the ladder... Read More
I believe it would be safe to say that the... Read More
Legging Up Your CompetitionLet's face it. When you graduate from... Read More
If only there were no questions involved in getting a... Read More
Your value proposition is a series of statements defining your... Read More
Let's face it. Monitoring employees' e-mail, tracking their Internet use,... Read More
There is much to say about posting resumes on the... Read More
Whether you're a student job seeker or a polished and... Read More
Mention "outsourcing" to a programmer and you may as well... Read More
Excerpt of Death By Workers' Compensation"The Bleeding Rose"In this Excerpt... Read More
Since college I've been told that a resume ought to... Read More
After establishing a trusting relationship with the safety officer, it... Read More
Many people, under financial or other pressures to find work... Read More
If you decide to get a degree in nursing, there... Read More
Cover Letters: Are you telling them what they want to... Read More
Psychological Testing has become rampant across industries, more so in... Read More
Targeting your portfolio, (resume and cover letter) can get you... Read More
All Presidential candidates (before and after) make all kinds of... Read More
Options for Resume LayoutsThere are many options of available to... Read More
There is an end to the job search tunnel!It has... Read More
A flair for the dramatic is a theatrical term used... Read More
When preparing for your interview, you need to be ready... Read More
The dot com boom of 1990s brought with it a... Read More
Making a career change is nothing new in today's job... Read More
As children we often used to read stories where magical... Read More
One of the most emotionally crippling aspects of unemployment is... Read More
Ever wonder if you are in the right career? If... Read More
1) Build a Relationship With Your Boss:Like it or not,... Read More
Today, it isn't that uncommon for some children and teenagers... Read More
Family is the driving force of our lives. You need... Read More
This career article will give you some great tips on... Read More
One of the greatest threats facing both employees and the... Read More
Are you a new graduate with little or no work... Read More
Salary negotiating is an important topic that must be addressed... Read More
Ask yourself this question: "Do I like what I do... Read More
I recently talked with a client who was paralyzed at... Read More
Careers, Jobs & Employment Careers, Jobs & Employment |