How many times have you felt the urge to impress a girl you've just met ? I'm talking about the kind of burning need that you feel, the compulsive urge that tells your brain that you've got to impress this girl at any cost; the kind of impression that leaves your imprint in her mind. Catch my drift ???
For starters, you've got to be well groomed; appearance plays an important role in the formation of first impression. Your appearance is the first perception that anyone has of you, so, your clothes speak for you to a certain degree.
Ponder on this: How many times has a well dressed lady caught your eye when you are out walking in the streets? Well, you don't have a clue about the lady and YET she caught your eye? so, what she is wearing is the thing that is doing the communication here? It is all the better if you come packaged with good looks and a great body but let's get real, not many men are blessed with that so; suffice to say that well groom is the way to go.
Once that is settled, you got to work on perfecting the art of small talk. Small talk creates a window of opportunity for you to make a lasting impression with the person you are talking to. The one thing that you need to bear in mind is to stay clear from the typical senseless drivel. Strive instead to be an interesting conversationalist. A good way to start would be to scan the newspaper headline everyday; newspaper headlines always make good conversation starters.
Project yourself as an interesting conversationalist by choosing topics of interest. These topics can range from current events to an upcoming movie or concert. Take note that an upcoming movie or concert would make an excellent prelude to asking for a date.
It would be great if you have a story to tell that relates to the conversation on hand. Telling a story not only creates association; it also piques her interest in you and subconsciously this association (you + the story and conversation at hand) is being filed into her memory subconsciously. As such, when she comes across the same situation or object again in the near future, she would be instantly reminded of you. Now that is the kind of impression you'd like to leave a girl with.
It gets better if you can make her laugh? It'll put you on good terms with her and she's definitely more likely to remember you when you make her laugh. Laughter also makes her more relax and comfortable around you as laughing releases the feel good hormone. So, go on out there, tickle her funny bone and you are more likely to walk away with her number and chances are she'll remember you when you call.
All said and done, you still have to come across as being comfortable with yourself when you are doing all these. Don't fake it ! Women can detect it? As long as you are yourself and not pretending to be someone you are not, with a little humor, a dose of sensitivity and a lot of confidence you'll definitely go places with her !!!
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